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10 Things Insecure People Do That Slowly Destroy Their Lives

Insecure people have a different approach to life than other people. Unfortunately, this often hinders their growth and makes their daily lives harder to deal with. Here are ten things insecure people do that slowly destroy their live—make sure you don’t have any of these qualities in your life!

1. They live in fear of judgement.

Insecure people always worry about what other people are thinking. And they don’t think they’re coming out on top. Insecure people feel like they are always being judged, and not for who they truly are. This is often because they see themselves as inferior, and can’t understand how other people would see them as anything else.

2. They avoid meeting new people.

Those who are insecure don’t like meeting new people, for a variety of reasons. They might be scared of the aforementioned judgement. They might not trust themselves to be confident in social situations, or might not think they’re interesting enough to hold a conversation.

3. They don’t believe they’re good enough.

Insecure people never think they’re good enough—for anything, for meeting new people, for deserving friends, for the next promotion at work. They could be the nicest, funniest, most driven person, but they’ll never see themselves that way. They don’t think anyone can see them as a good person because they don’t feel like they are.

4. They’re not true to themselves.

Insecure people are the ones who most often become those around them. They’re like chameleons in social situations, adapting to their surroundings to try and fit in better. They don’t feel comfortable being themselves, so they try to become anyone else.

5. They live in a world with denial.

Insecure people are able to deny anything and everything. They don’t take facts as facts; they’re able to write them off as nothing. Even if all the signs are pointing towards a positive situation, an insecure person will deny it all just to stay on their doomed track.

6. They’re doomed to fail.

Because insecure people have no faith in themselves, they’re doomed to fail. They never pump themselves up for a promotion at work, and they can’t build up enough confidence to hit on that cute stranger at the bar. Instead of just swallowing their nerves and going for any dream, they think of the worst and insist that they’re doomed to fail. They’re so sure of this outcome that they won’t even try.

7. They don’t trust others.

Insecure people don’t trust themselves, but they don’t trust others, either. They are often paranoid, thinking that everyone else is judging them, or out to get them. They don’t think they can have friends because they don’t think they’re valuable people. They can’t have a relationship because they think their partner is cheating on them and lying to them.

8. They look for the worst.

Insecure people can’t find the positive side of any situation because they’re always looking for the worst. Even on a good day, they’re unable to let go of negative emotions. This often means they’ll ruin a situation just to prove themselves right, to prove that the world really is giving them the worst of every situation.

9. They’re not rooted in reality.

Insecure people aren’t rooted in reality. They often live in their imaginations, which is why they’re paranoid and don’t trust others. They lack the logic that proves they are decent people, instead choosing to live in a world where they are often the victims, never trusted, not worth love or friendship, never going to move up the corporate ladder. In reality, this person is talented and caring, but because they can’t distance themselves from their insecurities, they’re not able to function in the real world.

10. They miss out on the best of life.

Insecure people spend too much time in their own heads. They put themselves down, thinking the worst of themselves and others. By living in all this negativity, they’re missing out on the best of life. They’re not able to see the good in the people around them, or the beauty in their daily lives.



8 Habits Insecure People Have That Keep Them From Finding Love

“I’m not attractive,” “I can’t do it,” or “I have failed” are all phrases that are often spoken by people who don’t love themselves enough. Psychologists label such behavior toxic because it can not only poison the lives of those who are also insecure, but also everyone around them. This is why a relationship with a toxic person is a real challenge because the partner always has to comfort and inspire them instead of enjoying life.

Here at Bright Side, we decided to figure out why it is so hard to love someone who doesn’t love themselves — and now, we know exactly why it’s so hard to live with them.

1. They absorb all your emotions and need more.

People who don’t love themselves need other people to prove their love for them all the time. They see a hidden catch in every word, every look, and every action. This is not a bad temper: it’s just really hard for an insecure person to understand whether someone is being sincere or not. It’s very hard to communicate with a person who always sees only the bad things in life.

2. They talk only about themselves and their feelings.

Insecure people often combine two opposite traits — they don’t like themselves but they are also extremely egoistic. Ideally, a relationship between two people consists of conversations where they are equal. But that isn’t always true in this case. They have complexes, which is why they think and talk only about themselves. This type of person can morally drain even the most patient partner.

3. Negative emotions are stronger for them.

An insecure person suspects that they aren’t really interesting. But it’s very painful to realize such things about yourself which is why they complain about all the things around them. They’ll say things like, “Doctors in hospitals are fools,” or “the wife of my friend is ugly and stupid.” All while they themselves are perfectly fine. That’s why their partner has to provide immense support for them in unpleasant surroundings.

4. They may cheat.

People who are really confident don’t need other people telling them that they are great. They know that already because confidence is inside them.

It doesn’t work the same way with people who are not used to loving and caring about themselves. Their self-esteem really depends on the opinion of others. Doubts about their attractiveness make them look for love somewhere else. Every person that shows them empathy becomes very important in their lives. It’s also very easy for them to blame their partner, usually for not giving them enough love.

5. They always have to prove something to the world and themselves.

Experts claim that people who are too critical of themselves are often anxious without any good reason. And they are never satisfied with themselves or other people which causes them to constantly look for a more ideal life including a new job that will be better than the previous one, buy things they don’t need or meet new people. It seems that they have to prove to the entire world that they are really not that bad. We don’t think that you can have a normal life with such an insecure person like this.

6. They are jealous and they check you.

Jealousy is something that insecure people have. The people who don’t love themselves can’t really believe that someone else can love them. Sometimes, a relationship can turn into a constant search for deception. This is a really terrible situation because the jealous partner starts intense, unnecessary surveillance. This leaves the risk of living with a real tyrant to be very high. And there is no way you can convince a person that you are not cheating because they simply never believe you.

7. They don’t live for today.

Insecure people are often called immature and lazy, but one thing is known for sure: they don’t want to be responsible for their own lives, so their partners have to be instead. Their fear of the future won’t let them plan their lives and regrets hold them back, standing in the way of living a full life. People like this can’t have a normal life.

8. They become dependent.

There is always a void inside an unsatisfied partner. They have no interest in anything that will keep their attention, have no responsibility and they don’t care about tomorrow. A partner of an insecure person will try to fill the void with love, ask them for new presents, make promises that they will always be together, give them words of love, and so on. In the end, it makes the couple exhausted because it’s impossible to be a good, reliable partner.

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