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are you dealing with 

TOXIC BEHAVIOUR OR TOXIC PEOPLE 


BEHAVIOUR
the way in which one acts or conducts oneself, especially toward others.

  • the way in which an animal or person acts in response to a particular situation or stimulus.
    plural noun: behaviours; plural noun: behaviors
    "the feeding behavior of predators"
  • the way in which a natural phenomenon or a machine works or functions.
    "the erratic behavior of the old car"

this could be a mood


PERSON'S CULTURE 
it's not a mood it's their .... the manifestations and achievement regarded collectively


That is .. 
your Behaviour towards this issue is Toxic 
V's 
your a Toxic; insecure / Arrogant / in Denial / Control Freak / Stupid 




Don’t Expect Toxic People to Admit Their Mistakes





Aren’t toxic people the worst? 

be clear this Behaviour or person's culture or their mood

  • They always work behind your back and want nothing more than to suck your soul out and use you for their sick goals.
  • They will take advantage of you and manipulate you any chance they can and they will deny any wrongdoing when confronted. 
  • You can’t expect a toxic person to apologize when they make a mistake. 
  • They will play the victim – it’s in their blood. There’s always an ulterior motive for these people. 
  • Don’t believe them for a second even if they mutter the words “I’m sorry”. They don’t truly mean it, and sinister intentions might yet be hiding behind those words.





We all make mistakes.
  •  It’s only human to do wrong as we’re not perfect. Apologizing for those mistakes is the right thing to do. 
  • That’s what separates normal people from toxic people – the latter believe they can’t be wong. 
  • Even if the facts aren’t in their favor, toxic people will find excuses to justify their behavior. They believe they’re perfect and that they never make mistakes. 
  • They always play the victim and try to blame others. Since they genuinely don’t beleve they can be wrong, they never apologize.






Try to call them out and you’ll be the one apologizing in the end.

  •  Have you ever tried to reason with toxic people? It’s impossible. 
  • They’ll turn the tables around and you’ll end up feeling guilty. 
  • Keep in mind these people are master manipulators. 
  • They will never reflect on the things they’ve done wrong – it’s always yours or someone else’s fault.

Loving such people is an impossible task.
  •  To be honest, you have to be at least a bit insane. 
  • Toxic people are very confident and that’s admiring in the beginning.
  • However, as your relationship moves forward, you’ll realize that you’re locked in a prison with them. Toxic people don’t grow. They are impossible to live with and will never change or improve themselves. 

They are the best, they are perfect, they are the most successful. You can’t outdo their achievements – even if you try, you’ll regret it in the end. 
Whenever you try to point out something wrong they’ve done, you’ll end up apologizing instead.
Don’t do this to yourself. 
Don’t ever try to get in a relationship with toxic people. 

You’ll suffer for it.
Even when you try to leave them, they’ll do anything to make you stay. Don’t believe it for a second – it’s a trap. 
These people only want to control and manipulate you, so don’t waste your time on them. You deserve better.









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Boiling Frog



you adjust to bad situation and 
when its time to get out - your can't  


The boiling frog is a fable describing a frog being slowly boiled alive. The premise is that if a frog is put suddenly into boiling water, it will jump out, but if the frog is put in tepid water which is then brought to a boil slowly, it will not perceive the danger and will be cooked to death






As metaphor

The boiling frog story is generally offered as a metaphor cautioning people to be aware of even gradual change lest they suffer eventual undesirable consequences. It may be invoked in support of a slippery slope argument as a caution against creeping normality. It is also used in business to reinforce that change needs to be gradual to be accepted.Oppositely, the expression "boiling frog syndrome" is sometimes used as shorthand to invoke the pitfalls of standing pat.




In philosophy

In philosophy the boiling frog story has been used as a way of explaining the sorites paradox. It describes a hypothetical heap of sand from which individual grains are removed one at a time, and asks if there is a specific point when it can no longer be defined as a heap.




The sorites paradox (/soʊˈraɪtiːz/;
sometimes known as the paradox of the heap) is a paradox that arises from vague predicates. A typical formulation involves a heap of sand, from which grains are individually removed. Under the assumption that removing a single grain does not turn a heap into a non-heap, the paradox is to consider what happens when the process is repeated enough times: is a single remaining grain still a heap? If not, when did it change from a heap to a non-heap?[








red arrow right.gif  The ... If then trap







red arrow right.gifis Denial is not a river on Egypt







Jar of coloured Ants




If you go to the southwest desert and catch 100 red fire ants as well as 100 large black ants and put them in a jar, at first, nothing will happen


However, if you violently shake the jar and dump them back on the ground the ants will fight until they eventually kill each other

The thing is, the red ants think the black ants are the enemy and vice versa, when in reality, the real enemy is the person who shook the jar

This is exactly what’s happening in society today
Liberal vs Conservative
Black vs White
Pro Mask vs Anti Mask

The real question we need to be asking ourselves is who’s shaking the jar and why?








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